We all have times of storm in our lives. I tend to have mini
tempests when I’m trying to steer my children in one direction and they insist
on going another—or not moving at all.
This afternoon I was trying to get the kids to clean up
their toys so they could have their free time and I could start dinner.
However, not only were they being goofy, but they also seemed blind to every scattered
toy until I pointed it out. Since they had had an active day of play, that meant
I was policing them as they picked up toy…after toy…after toy.
One eye was on the clock as I watched dinnertime inch
closer. My internal pressure was building, and I was becoming more irritable
with every passing second. However, the kiddos seemed unaffected by my bad
mood, playing, laughing, and even singing as they ran back and forth and took
too much time to pick up their toys.
Yes, singing. I almost snapped when I realized my son was
singing a happy little tune to himself as I groused at him. Then I heard the
lyrics of the song my six-year-old was singing under his breath as he worked:
“…in the middle of the war, you guard my soul. You alone are the anchor, when my sails are torn….”*
My heart melted. The clouds dissipated. Because that little
song reminded me that the last thing I want is to be the storm swirling around
my son. But what I do want, and what I’m so glad he’s learning, is that there
is an anchor we can both cling to “in the eye of the storm.”
*If you don’t recognize this song, it’s “Eye of the Storm,”
sung by Ryan Stevenson. You can find it on iTunes.
I can’t just keep posting “out of the mouths of babes” but it’s amazing as parents how many times He brings teaches us as we’re trying to grow them up in the way they should go. I love it. Not just the “isims” but a peek at your journey. Keep writing please!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jason! That encouragement means a lot. I know posts like this are probably not what people had in mind when they told me to blog, but moments like this are definitely part of our journey--the thoughtful moments as well as the funny--and they're often intertwined.
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